Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Little Girl's Hairstyles -Q & A: How to get the gals to sit still long enough to do their hair!!??

A recent comment (and many many others) have led me to share just some things I do to get my gals to sit still and let me play with their hair.
This is what my friend Angelia said:

I can't get my fiance's girls to sit still and play beauty shop. I even got a comb and everything. I want to play with their hair so bad, but they just run around like boys. :0(


Well, here's what I do ladies:
 
1. I go to my girls' bathroom and grab 3 things: Their small step stool, the garbage (for hairs that are combed out),  and the basket that I keep all of my hair 'tools' in (elastics, combs, hairspray, spray bottle, etc.). It's portable and I keep it under my bathroom sink so it's ready to go.
2. I park them on the small stool in front of the TV (gasp! I know). I turn it on to their favorite cartoon (or whatever they'll watch).
3. If that is not going to hack it that day, I offer a variety of my wondeful homemade nutritional snacks...such as candy, fruit snacks, pretzels,etc., to eat while they watch TV. (I am teaching excellent habits here.) 
 
My basket
This usually works 9 times out of 10 with my 3 year old. My 6 year old has been through this enough that she'll stand still for me in the bathroom and we just chat while I do her hair. But, like I mentioned in my last Q & A, it just takes repetition. Kids will get used to a routine and you can have your 15 minute window of hair time. I've found that having all my stuff readily available helps too, because if I'm constantly getting up to get something, they like to get up too and run away.
 
I hope that's doable for some of you! Don't give up--they get used to it, and LOTS of compliments help them start to like the whole 'getting pretty' time.  :)
 

6 comments:

  1. Ahhhh-Haaaa! So that's how you do it. Now, I know one thing....SNACKS will work! And Barney, okay that's two.

    Wow! Going to get a basket together. Thank you!!

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  2. hehe...i'm glad that i'm not the *only* one that parks them in front of the TV and gives them "healthy" snacks!! Dum-dum suckers are a favorite of ours--and they last a bit longer, so they don't eat as many! lol

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  3. We usually do their hair while the tv's on, but sometimes for a nice change i'll let my four-year-old have some waterplay time in the bathroom sink. We just plug the sink, fill it, and let her go to town with soap bubbles and toys (or sometimes harmless kitchen gadgets) and she'll let me do what i want with her hair.

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  4. This is just pure genius!! Why have i been fighting them for so long!?

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  5. How fun! Stopping by from SITS!

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  6. What's SITS, btw? Anyway, I just luv the basket idea. I never am organized and my girls always get mad when I lean over to get something and pull their hair! Snacks are a good idea too. So is letting them play with the squirt bottle.

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